Long distance relationship

There were some people asking me, how do you actually manage your relationship because there's a big distance between you and your partner. since there are some enquiry about it, so i nak buat satu entri pasal cinta jarak jauh. hehehe. i'm not talking as a professional tau. i akan bercakap as someone who have an experience on this. so don't get me wrong :) kalau i salah cakap, or maybe there will be some people who might disagree with me, i'm deeply sorry.

Actually, long distance relationship or short distance i could say only has a small differences. a main difference between both is only distance. do you ever heard about this quote, distance only matters to the mind not to the heart. so kalau both of them i mean girlfriend and boyfriend betul betul suka and love each other i rasa memang takkan ada masalah or issues. bergaduh itu perkara yang normal. yang dekat pon bergaduh, lagi lah yang stay jauh jauh ni kan.

Yang paling penting in long distance relationship yang i boleh list down are trust, honesty, love and care, having a good communication, as well as try to avoid any temptation of over controlling. bagi i, the most important thing is trust. kalau dah lose trust memang susah sangat sangat nak gain trust balik. kira trust is the main key to everything :) walau besar macam mana pon salah, i prefer someone who told me the truth rather than mislead me with lie.

Then communication issue? sekarang ni dah zaman canggih, so semua benda jadi senang. cuba fikir time zaman mak ayah kita bercinta. kalau yang jauh tu, nak kena tulis surat then kena tunggu 5,6 hari baru lah boleh baca. hahaha gila sedih :O sekarang ni skype ada, ym ada, facebook lagi, contoh kalau dua dua pakai BB boleh bb messenger selalu. so there is no more excuse kalau nak kata ada masalah komunikasi. dimana ada kemahuan disitu ada jalan. hehe.

Kalau dah jauh ni biasalah maybe level of insecurity akan bertambah. it might happen to both, tak kisah si lelaki ke perempuan. so temptation nak control partner kita will occurred. benda ni lah selalunya akan wujud salah paham, gaduh, merajuk dan pelbagai lagi. haha. its absolutely normal tapi everything yang kita buat mesti ada limit. tak guna pon nak control lah nak kena report 24 jam dekat mana buat apa semua. sebab tu i cakap trust tu kena ada.

Remember, being in relationship as a couple bukannya macam dah kahwin. we still have other stuff to think about. our family, friends, study and our future. never put your relationship as your number one priority. jodoh ketentuan qada dan qadar semua ditangan tuhan. apa yang kita boleh buat adalah usaha dan tawakal :) usaha in terms of jaga relationship elok elok, knows your own limit and do whatever you think can cherish your relationship ♥

Nothing is worth having comes easy. tak ada benda yang korang rasa berbaloi and berharga ni senang nak dapat dalam dunia ni. betul tak? and last but not least, don't be to dependent on your partner. sometimes, we need to show them yang kita ni boleh independent. my dad once told me, 'papa suka kalau anak papa boleh independent, nampak berani'. so dari pandangan i, maybe lelaki suka perempuan yang berani :P hahaha tapi i tak tahu lah betul ke tak.

For some people and readers yang still tak tahu, i memang jauh beribu ribu batu dari boyfriend i. hehe i dekat Australia and my boyfriend dekat Malaysia. but alhamdullilah so far semua okay :) and i hope it will be in the long run. ameen. best jugak jauh jauh ni, bila dapat jumpa feeling die gua nak habaq perghh memang best gila lah! *saje nak exaggerate. hahaha. tapi lagipon i selalu balik malaysia so tak ada masalah sangat. hehe. i think that's all from me.

Stay positive and have hope :)